You might wonder what to expect from your first evidential mediumship reading, feel a sense of uncertainty or even fear of what could happen. However, as a medium who has walked this path myself, I want to share my experiences to reassure you that there's nothing to fear when connecting with the spirit world.
1. No Dark Energies or Bad Spirits:
One common fear that I have heard is about encountering dark energies or evil spirits and how to protect against them. Throughout my experiences, I've never encountered such entities. I have also never believed in their existence and therefore never used any form of protection. The spirit world is for me personally another word for ‘heaven’, a place where the soul lives on after our physical existence. With our body we are also leaving behind our ego, the part of us that controls and manipulates which has negative thoughts, feelings and emotions like jealousy, anger, fear etc.
However, some people like the adrenaline that comes from fear. That’s why tv shows about haunted places and mysterious experiences are popular. I believe that what’s bad is always available but so is what is good. If you believe in the evil, bad and ugly or maybe even manifest it, you will most likely encounter those just because you will judge your experiences based on your belief system.
For example, coming back from a recent road trip, tired after a long drive but also satisfied about leaving the usual routine behind for a weekend, we turned off the engine of the car. Relieved that everything had gone smoothly, I gathered all the belongings in the car, thanking my spirit family and team for the pleasant time and locked the car. The car however keeps locking and unlocking and the lights flicker. Even though our car isn’t the latest model, there is nothing wrong with it and my immediate thought goes to my loved ones in spirit. It’s their response of saying ‘We enjoyed it too and we were with you all along.’ Not everyone would have reacted the same way, maybe feeling fear or anxiety. You are giving meaning to everything in this world and those meanings will create the emotions you feel. So, be mindful of the meaning you give things and be reassured that there is nothing bad coming from the spirit world.
2. Unconditional Love and Guidance:
Spirit communication is not about blame or discomfort. I believe that spirits are the highest form of intelligence, embodying pure love, regardless of what they did while on earth. Their purpose is to offer guidance and support, leaving us with a sense of certainty, reassurance, and joy.
You may have been harmed or hurt by someone who is now in the spirit world and worry that they could still mislead you. Believe me, we all have such a friend or relative. However, in my experience, no spirit I’ve brought through has exhibited such behavior. Instead, they often show remorse or take responsibility for their actions.
3. Trained and Ethical Mediums:
Please remember, if a reading leaves you feeling uncertain or sad, it’s not a reflection of the spirit, but rather the medium’s training.
I’ve encountered many mediums since the age of 13, but one experience stands out. A woman who called herself the president of a spiritualist church in London once brought forward my beloved Grandpa during a presentation for me and my mom. It was our first trip without him, and his passing had left a huge gap in our hearts. During those brief five minutes, she focused solely on his health problems, his passing, my inability to be there in person, and the fact that his graveside wasn’t next to my grandmother’s. This only deepened our guilt and grief. I was left in tears, yet she later expressed how “blessed” she felt to have brought forward someone so dear to me.
I know I’m not alone in not wanting to relive the pain of a loved one’s passing repeatedly. While discussing such details may validate the connection, it’s not what I would highlight when remembering my Grandfather. Instead, I would share his kind and generous heart, his contagious smile, his love for Cowboy Movies, and his funny side.
When you receive an evidential reading from me, rest assured, I always ask the spirit world to bring through the guidance and upliftment you need.
4. Evidential Mediumship:
There’s nothing mysterious or unknown in evidential mediumship. Every reading is centered on your loved one sharing life experiences, relationships, and memories that you can validate. Most of my mediumship readings begin with me describing your loved one’s character, and then we journey together through whatever they have to share. Remember, they know your questions, thoughts, and worries, and they love to communicate with you just as much as you love hearing from them.
5. Flexibility in Beliefs:
I understand that we may have different belief systems, so I encourage you to take from the reading what resonates with you and leave the rest behind. Communication is a two-way street or in the case of spirit communication, a triangle. If something I say is unclear, I’ll always check back with your loved one, as it’s my interpretation of what they’re sharing. Sometimes, parts of the reading may only make sense later on, so allow time for everything to unfold.
6. Confidentiality and Non-Judgment:
Your information is completely confidential, and I hold no judgment toward any behavior or belief system. Trust and openness are essential for a successful mediumship or animal reading. With much of my own family in the spirit world, I truly understand where you’re coming from. It took me years to heal from my own pain, and I’m still on that journey. No one but you can fully grasp your unique pain or grief, but I can empathize, having walked a similarly steep, rocky path. My hope is that the tools, experiences, and guidance from spirit that I share will bring you comfort and help you find peace on your journey.
Conclusion:
Approach mediumship readings with an open mind and a healthy dose of skepticism. Not every medium will be the right fit for you, and that’s perfectly fine. Explore different styles and find the one that resonates with you personally. The purpose of an evidential mediumship reading is to bring healing by (re)connecting you with your loved one or beloved furry friend in the spirit world. It serves as proof that they not only live on but continue to walk this path with us. They have never truly disconnected or left our side. For me, there is no greater comfort than knowing they are not only free of pain and in their best form, but also right beside me - perhaps even closer than they could have ever been on earth.
As a medium and animal communicator, I would be honored to bring healing by (re-) connecting you with your beloved furry friend in the spirit world: Evidential Animal Mediumship Reading!
